SYMPHONY OF LIFE
"The two most important days of your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why"- Mark Twain
Sunday, April 27, 2025
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Sunday, April 13, 2025
International Webinar on “The Cardijn Spirit: Inspiration Behind Our Movement”
I participated in the International Webinar as part of the ongoing Webinar Series titled “Walking the Path of See, Judge, Act.” organized by International Young Catholic Students (IYCS) . The webinar brought together over 88 participants from diverse regions across the globe, including students, chaplains, alumni, and members of social action movements, all united by their commitment to the values of justice, dignity, and faith.
The theme of the webinar, “The Cardijn Spirit: Inspiration Behind Our Movement,” focused on the profound legacy of Joseph Cardijn, the founder of the Young Christian Workers (YCW), and the development of the See, Judge, Act methodology that has shaped the lives of countless individuals and movements worldwide.
Friday, April 4, 2025
WHERE PEACE MATTERED A PRIORITY!!
I was recently on a travel to Christeen Retreat Centre Kottayam on April 1 and April 2nd where I got a chance to participate in the National Seminar on Enlightened leadership for greater India Movement organized by Dharma Rajya Vedi a peace building organization from Alappuzha Kerala.
The training made a greater impact to realize on the
societal forefront and also helped me to understand the present reality of peace
building of today.
My learning from the two-day seminar were,
1.
TYA GAR CHANA, the only spiritual weapon to
fight against the selfishness, pride and consumerism of today’s world.
2.
TYA GAR CHANA, aims to revive divine blessing
and we shouldn’t be masters of creation but we need to stewards of creation.
3.
On understanding the Interreligious vision of
the greater India movement, I realized that ideology without a vision is like a
journey without a destination.
4.
Ethical Citizenship is the need of the hour,
where youth need proper education and awareness and considering the importance
of environmental and cultural preservation, there is urgency to address to the
young on the importance.
5.
We had a session of Panchayati Democracy where
the relevance on understanding How can peace be developed in the Panchayat Level
can be improvised.
Observed the tagline on leadership at the
grass root level, where a true leader has to be a true follower.
6.
Got to know the Fellow Organizations working
closely on Peace Building,
i. LIPI-
Kochi- Loyola Institute of Peace and International Relations.
ii. DBM-
Mumbai- Dharma Bharati Mission- Mumbai
iii. Assisi
Institute of Peace Studies- Kannur- Kerala
iv. Manipur
Peace Movement- Manipur.
7.
We had a session on the Ministry of Enlightened
Leadership by Acharya Sachinanda Bharati the Founder of the Movement, where I learnt
on
i. 5
Principles of Enlightened Leadership, which is Focus and Progress, Trust and
Entrust, Grow and Help Grow, Risk and Rise, Respond and Report.
ii. Working
on SMART Goals and aim to achieve Creative Fidelity and Not repetitive loyalty.
8.
We had a session on Naturopathy and How your
body can be in tune to support your mind and in turn we build peace, If the inner
self is not in Peace, then working towards peace in the world is a difficult task.
Had a clarity on the Dead Food which we consume daily and the impact it makes
to the body leading the health crisis.
9.
My last of the sessions which I felt made a
great amount of importance was on the Enlightened Leadership by Dr Jill Carr
Harris, a Gandhian, and a Peace Activist. The stresses made were on
i. Violence
is become more violent today.
ii. We
worked on an Indian Renaissance and thus Freedom Came to us at few costs to
life, but today we are still in the search of the hunt for even look at freedom.
iii. It
is always essential to have a scholarly understanding of the subject of Peace
and not go by Peace Value.
iv. We
are in the era where Youth need to take Value Based Action as they do not have
an appetite for Social Change.
v. The
reality amidst the masses is the Tearing down of the Ideology of Gandhi and how
can youth be attracted to the practise of non-violence, the only way Is to
identify and make them realise on
a.
Transformational Leadership
b.
Charismatic leadership- Using the example of max
faber where follower identifies himself with the leader.
c.
Distributed and Shared Leadership, where
followers and leaders to have a relationship.
d.
Swaraj- Autonomy, by giving them recognition and
power.
vi. A
Distinct Gandhi who worked in meeting every individual whereas the rest were
working towards to community building, it takes time but it builds greater non-violent
leadership.
vii. Understanding
Shared Leadership Where Young needs to be given they role to respond to
situations and giving them space means they can contribute and make the world
where more realistic and the environment at large is more spiritualistic where
the concept of Eco-Spirituality is born.
viii.
On the whole today’s Youth have freedom of
CHOICE but what is the ultimate ask in understanding Gandhi and the Spirituality
is we need to work to give them freedom from Exploitation.
Since this is a organization which works towards building
Peace, there was a concept of Unity Forum where members who participated where
invited to join and that the forum decided to make a president by requesting PV
Rajagopal a Gandhi Peace Activist who was a also a participant who will lead
this forum towards working in the communities in building peace and working
towards communal harmony.
It was refreshing to be part of this seminar as I made new
friendships and also introduced my dream project humanity for letters , which I
did in the sharing the participants introduction and I shared that one pen one
postcard can bring a lot of unity and change and peace in the area we live in
which was welcomed by all.
Joseph Kamal Francis
Participants of the National Seminar
Dr Jill Carr Harris during her session on Enlightened Leadership
Friday, October 11, 2024
WHY BEING THERE ALWAYS IS LIFE CHANGING
I was recently on a pilgrimage to accompany few young people, on their 1ST Experience of Visiting Velankanni Shrine, Nagapattinam and also Chennai. And in Velankanni, we have had this tradition of Kneeling towards Mother Mary, maybe a long tradition to accept that we are all sinners and there is change of life that happens and also if any prayers unanswered, we kneel and we bring to Mother Mary and the prayers will get answered.
In the Heat of the Morning, 3 youth pilgrims (Raj,Matthew,Vishwajeet) decided that they will set along the journey to reflect God and also pray for the Catholic Church and also for the Youth Ministry. So since its going to be humid and children will be tired I set aside to accompany and pray along with them and we began our journey, it was 12.15pm afternoon, scorching like Heat coming along to u directly and we began, as the journey began I started reflecting on the Gift, experience on how important today’s role of an Animator for Young People.
When with Young People , the First Priority is to be with them, and accompany them wherever they are, as Young are always vulnerable just by our presence they feel great and accompanied and there is always a sense of belief in their journey that they can accomplish.
It was a journey that Underwent in Sand and the Piligrims started trembling and they needed an extra spiritual support then I started praying along with them just to keep away the pain and we continued our journey.
It was the Youth of the Catholic Church hence there were many intentions to seek prayers and we began to reflect ask pardon and also to invoke blessings and we prayed the Rosary for Strength and Forgiveness and lead us closer to Mother Mary.
When with Young People, the Second Priority is to give them Freedom, to Explore, many at times as an Guide and Animator we give them Advise and we do not allow them to explore, I was personally happy in the Journey, when we began I only shared about that there is this pilgirm experience that is life changing and may be we shall pray for motivation and then decide if we want to take up! And some motivation, brought the 3 Greatest People I journeyed with.
We continued our Journey praying for the Good Health of the People who journeyed with us in Life and one Youth Matthew decided that he will walk along accompanying the rest in the journey.It was here we see on the Unbound love of Mother Mary to protect us, in the beautiful experience and help to complete what was started.
When with Young People, the Third Priority is to be watchful and take care of them, any where anytime, Young do not need gadgets, but all they need was to care, protect and support them in their journey, amist our busy schedule it is very challenging to accept and see Young people Grow.
It is here that I observed on the Inspiration led by Raj, the Present ICYM President for the Youth of the Catholic Church, any leader calls for servanthood and the greatest servant was Jesus Christ, in the Journey I observed he was so calm, so thoughtful and so accompanying to pray for all the Youth and also for the Religious who support Youth Ministry. Maybe in recent times I never experienced this.
We were half way and tired and drenched and we still believed Mother Mary is there and she will protect us, I started to feel drained and drowsy and felt a migraine I was out, by then, just then a person came back and asked if we need water and I guided them to get back and come and seemed Mother Mary itself came, and then after coming closer, it was another Pilgrim Apurva ( there is also a personal testimony “Every Knee Shall Bow”) writte by her on her experience of journey to Mother Mary. Now that we are more stronger we continued to pray for the Catholic Church and for the Youth Ministry and also we prayed for the families of Raj,Viswajeet and Mathew and also for the participants who were with us.
We felt Great as we began our final journey of coming closure to Mother Mary, we felt happier since we prayed and personally I prayed after a while for the people who made significant impact in what shaped me to be me.We prayed for all who seeked our prayers and we felt maybe someday the prayers will be answered.
We kneeled in the final seeking the blessing of Mother Mary and there is life and we felt we are different, and there is an experience of LIFE that we have got it and we continue to carry it in our hearts to our Fellow Youth we meet in our Parish and wherever we are.
Why Being with Young People always is Life Changing is that everybody you ever meet knows something you don't and Young people always will have a different experience and when we journey with them we feel one among them.
I felt Great and Saw GOD IN REAL LIFE!
Wednesday, October 2, 2024
Every Knee shall bow
A Pilgrimage to Velankanni and my blending with the
holy verse, Phillipians 2:10-11, is a story I want to tell. A fine Saturday, we
reached at Velankanni as Pilgrims. Every one had their own reasons to be there.
Mine was duty, but reaching there and breathing that air, changed something
inside me. The Sun was on Killer mode and we were there wandering Church to Church.
I went solo to sit on a quiet place to reflect upon my life and my faith. After
sitting for a while and photographing the majestic Churches, I started
returning when I saw some of my friends kneeling and walking all the way to the
shrine of the Holy Mother in scorching Sun. I ran to them as I knew they might
need some help along the way of their penance. I was not of much help since I
was just holding water bottles and praying the rosary for their wishes to come
true. Their faces filled with sweat and pain moved me. There and then I knew,
that humans are something other than what I understand. I was feeling something
more than empathy, it was a connection to their soul. Their faces moved me,
their tears made me question the definitions of Love.
It was something out of ordinary in my life. Faith..
what is it? Do I have enough? Do I love enough? Am I feeling the spirit with
which I was baptized? These questions filled my mind. It came naturally to me
to pray for those who were devotedly walking on their knees. I knew then that I
would do it too, but alone, when no one was watching. Slowly, we reached to the
end of the path and they finished their walk. Their knees were all screwed,
their skin all red, their clothes all dirty and their face was full of sweat.
They were so tired that they talked little. The mystery for me here was the ‘shine’
in their eyes, so magical, so beautiful!
At night, on the same day after dinner, everyone went their own way and one of my friends was with me. I asked her to hold my things for me till I return. I gave away all I had on me including my glasses. I knew I was going to kneel and the sweat makes the glasses fall. As I knelt, it didn’t feel hard. I started praying my rosary moving forward. I had no specific intention in my heart but had a long list of prayers that were handed to me before I left for the pilgrimage. I started remembering the list and paying to the holy mother. Slowly the pain started growing and growing without any signs of relief. Now, I am not even 1/10th the way and I have left my glasses behind which disabled me to see, how much further I need to go! The knees already started killing me, and I came on 4 limbs. I was not even 1.5/10th the way and the thought of quitting already crossed my mind. Then suddenly our big brother came and started walking alongside me to support me since he might have heard I am kneeling.
I was a little embarrassed, since I wanted to kneel
alone but I am always quick to accept God’s will, so I was cool with him
accompanying me. He started praying the rosary too while walking behind me and
it filled me with courage to continue. Now even though my knees were killing me
and I was giving up in my mind every second, I was actually not giving up! During
this time, I already prayed for all the intensions that were sent via me. Now
what do I do? The pain was already killing me! Then my hand touched the
crucifix of my rosary which was on my right hand while I was walking on my 4
limbs since I could no longer continue on 2. I felt the crucifix deeply, kept
it inside my pocket, tucked my kurta which was hindering my kneeling and
started again. This time I had the lingering feeling of the crucifix. It
reminded me of the Calvary where Jesus went through all the pain just for our
sake. I was constantly thinking how he mentally managed to continue walking and
my eyes were filled with tears, my face with sweat and my stupid bangs on my
face made all of these worse! As I continued, I don’t even remember how many
times I stopped, brushed of the sand embedded on my knees and continued
walking. I wasn’t able to see how far I have come, or how far I need to go, since
I didn’t have my glasses on, which made it harder for me to continue. I knew I
was not going to give up halfway. I remembered the faces of my family smiling
and continued. I saw Jesus bleeding and I continued. I stopped and then again
continued on Repeat. The pain was, honestly speaking, unbearable for me. Still,
I only knew that I was not going to give up. After 2 hours of dead knees,
swollen palms, wet clothes with sweat I reached the end. There was an iron rod
that marks the end of the path. I touched it and I broke down. I was heavy and
light at the same time. I was overwhelmed. I didn’t understand the reason. I
had prayed for everyone I know. My tears weren’t stopping but I wasn’t thinking
anything at all. When I stopped, I was grateful that Jesus did it for me. The
pain was real. I went through just a tiny fraction of what he went through and
it was unbearable, challenging,
tough, hard, rigorous, demanding, complicated, heavy, rough, and all the other
synonyms of hard, then how hard would it have been for him! My lord!
Something
has been changed after that. Mummy Mary never left my side from
the beginning to the end and she never will.
Apurva Xess
ICYM Youth Reflect on Feeling the 'Love of Our Holy Mother' During Vailankanni Pilgrimage
Indian
Catholic Youth Movement (ICYM) organized a youth pilgrimage to Vailankanni and
Chennai from September 13 to 15. Thirty-five young pilgrims from across India,
including Rev. Fr. Dominic Pinto, Associate Executive Secretary to the CCBI
Youth Commission, and key ICYM leaders such as National President Mr. Raj Bagh,
participated in this spiritually enriching journey.
The pilgrimage took the youth to significant Christian
sites, including the Vailankanni Shrine, St. Thomas Mount, St. Thomas Shrine,
and Annai Vailankanni Church. At St. Thomas Mount, Rev. Fr. Michael, Rector of
the shrine, shared insights on the life of St. Thomas, offering a deep
connection to the apostle's legacy.
Ms. Apurva Xess, ICYM NEXCO member, echoed this sentiment,
stating, "This pilgrimage brought me to a stage of faith where I felt the
love of our Holy Mother."
The event concluded with a Thanksgiving Mass at Vailankanni
Basilica on September 15, celebrated by Rev. Fr. Dominic Pinto, marking the end
of a journey that left the youth renewed in their faith and filled with hope.
This pilgrimage not only brought the youth closer to their
faith but also fostered unity and shared devotion, creating lasting memories of
spiritual growth and transformation.
I was fortunate to host this important group as it helped me
to build and meet next face of Youth and it helped me share a greater faith to
experience God in real life.
Friday, September 6, 2024
DO YOU HAVE TIME TO CALL!
WHY it is Important to call Somebody or maybe a
Friend!
1.
Calling
helps in a Greater way where we could connect emotionally, the struggles
sadness and happiness all in one Go.
2.
There
were days where we reminded calling on Birthdays by Marking in the Calendar and
wishing them on their special occasions.
3.
Speaking
helps to reduce mental health worries and sadness and we feel more connected.
4.
It
also finds a way to sustain a relationship and that every time there is
something new that is shared and kept as a memory.
5.
Calling
and speaking is a great stress buster one takes for life and cherishes and anticipates
the next moment when the next call is going to come.
Overall simple thumb rule spending many hours on watching social media can help to bring laughter but speaking to a friend over phone can go a long way in reducing mental health and keeps you smiling and happy.
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